So what is the ultimate formula?
It is the balance between truth, love, and power. One must weigh the 3 components in a balanced manner. When you have only truth without love and power, your life remains unchanged.
You know exactly the kind of problems you are facing but you just do not have the power to many the changes in you. Although, there is a famous quote that goes, ‘Love is Blind’, love isn’t really blind in reality. You need to love the person correctly and that is why you need truth and power to say no to his unhealthy request, like eating too much fat. When you have power without truth and love, people will suffer because power can be abused.
Those are some of the examples. Don’t worry if the above does not make any sense to you at this moment. As you go through the entire book, you will be able to understand the balancing principles in depth.